The Solo Journey of Finding Joy and Fulfillment in your Late-Twenties

The Solo Journey

of joy and fulfillment in your Late- Twenties

Dear Diary, 

I want to rediscover who I am as a woman. I feel like in this new season of my life  I am getting to know myself all over again. That’s okay! I want to know what gives me joy in the smallest moments in life. It’s important to have a cup that’s overflowing before pouring into someone else’s cup. Now, I want to get to know myself all over again and find what I like? What gives me the most joy inside? Find what other passions that I love outside of my day to day life?  I am on this rediscovery journey within myself as I am maturing in my femininity and womanhood. 

I think I am starting to understand as I get older how important it is to date yourself and get to know yourself as a woman. Before prioritizing someone else's wants and needs in a relationship. It's so important to give yourself the love that's needed in the season that you may need in the journey that you're specially may be in. If it means taking yourself on a walk, going to that pottery class that you wanted to do, pilates, movies, etc. Go and do that!

Don’t wait on someone else. Though it may feel scary to be in your own company when trying these new experiences by yourself. It will be freeing! It will be exhilarating! It will be liberating! I can't wait to start this new journey and get to know this new woman. I am choosing me and my happiness. That’s how you can love yourself and pour into yourself properly, and will set the standard to treat yourself and others around you. It starts with you! Be gentle with yourself. Love yourself like you love others. Please, Please, don’t forget that! To love yourself. Do things that make you afraid or fearful to try. That’s how you know your learning and growing while pouring into yourself. 

sincerely,

To the woman who's learning to be in her own company

I affirm, I am the one I have been waiting for and I finally showed up!